You were never paid for your effort

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Markets Don’t Reward Hard Work — They Reward Value Turns out the exit was the point. For 27 years, I thought I was being paid for my effort. I stayed late. I took on the ugly projects that many steered clear of. When something caught fire, I was the one they called, and I enjoyed being the one they called. I was wrong. The reward was real. The effort got me better performance ratings, bigger files, a name for being the guy that got shit done. Now that I’m on my way out the door, I’m seeing…

The Company Was Never Loyal to You

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The Company Will Always Keep Its Options Open. So Should You. The math changed. And the office keeps going without you. Last week, Avishai Abrahami — CEO of Wix — sent a letter to his entire company. It was warm. It was honest. He talked about saying goodbye to friends, people he’d worked alongside for years, people he trusted and respected. Then he laid off 1,000 of them. Twenty percent of the company. Gone. And he wasn’t wrong to do it. The math was no longer working. Currency pressures, AI…

The fine print on your paycheck

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Your Paycheck Costs You a Lot Most people ignore the hidden costs of their paycheck. You signed a contract. You didn’t read all the fine print. Time and labour in. Money out. That’s the deal you read. That’s the deal you remember signing. Flip the page. There are hidden costs on the back. And they’ve been compounding for years. The story you tell yourself “I need this job to survive.” Like all good stories, there’s truth in it. That’s what makes it dangerous. The truth keeps you from looking…

The Most Dangerous “Safe” Bet You’re Making

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The Most Dangerous “Safe” Bet You’re Making You’d never put your whole portfolio in one stock. So why are you doing it with your life? What’s really on your balance sheet? A couple of weeks ago, I got a letter telling me my “services may no longer be required”. I wrote about it — about why that letter didn’t break me, and why it likely would have destroyed me a decade ago. But here’s what I didn’t write about: what that letter revealed about the bet I’d been making for twenty years. And the…

Your Services May No Longer Be Required

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Why You’re Terrified to Lose the Job You Hate It’s not a financial crisis. It’s an identity crisis. What’s left when they take away the badge? I got an interesting letter last week. So did about 3,300 of my colleagues. The subject matter was polite, bureaucratic, and chilling: “Your services may no longer be required.” We are caught in the push to reduce the size of the public service in the Government of Canada. For many, this letter is a nightmare scenario. It triggers a primal panic. But I…

Your job is a contract. Your work is a calling.

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The Sunday Night Cheat Sheet: Contract vs. Calling Contracts get signed. Callings get answered. Stop negotiating what wants to live. Sunday night. And you’ve got that familiar knot in your stomach. You’re staring down another week, wondering why success feels so crappy. Here’s why: You’re confusing your Job with your Work. You’re dreading tomorrow because you’ve outsourced your sense of purpose to an employer who literally cannot provide it. Let’s fix that before you log in. The Sunday Night…

Stop Confusing Your Job With Your Work

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Work vs Job: The Distinction That Changes Everything Your job pays the bills. You work changes the world. Know the difference. Your job is the blueprint. Your work is what grows through it. What’s your work? NOT your job title. NOT “what do you do.” Your work. As in, the change you’re trying to bring to the world. Can’t answer? That’s because you think your job and your work are the same thing. (They’re not.) Your Job: What someone pays you to do. You execute someone else’s vision. You do…

Stop Choosing Jobs. Start Choosing Who You’ll Become.

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Stop Choosing Between Options. Start Choosing Between Futures. Every choice is a doorway to a different version of you. You’re not picking between offers. You’re choosing who you’ll become next. I was standing in my living room in Northern Ontario, staring at a job offer that made absolutely no sense to take. On paper, it was a bad deal. The pay for the government role in Ottawa was low. It would mean selling our house, leaving a small community where we had friends, roots, and a life we’d…

You’re Building A Beautiful Life You’re Too Drained To Enjoy

Tim Parkins and his friend Wade pausing on a wooded fall trail

You’re Building A Beautiful Life You’re Too Drained To Enjoy You’ve been so busy building a meaningful life that you forgot to make it livable. My good buddy Wade and I taking a break while on our hike. On Monday I went hiking with a good friend. We used to do this all the time. Every few weeks, we’d hit the trails, talk about life, solve the world’s problems, and come back feeling recharged. It was our thing. Then life got busy, for both of us. Bigger workloads. Projects around the house….

Freedom Is Anything But Free. You Willing To Pay?

Freedom Is Anything But Free. You Willing To Pay? The bill always comes due, and responsibility is the currency. Most people want more power. More freedom. More say in their work. More influence in their lives. But power doesn’t just show up one day; it’s earned through taking on responsibility. Many think that freedom is the absence of responsibility, but this thinking is completely backwards. Freedom is the reward you earn for consistently owning and delivering on bigger outcomes. That’s…